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Tuesday, 7 April 2015

Poll Results for March, 2015

Our very first poll, on who is your favourite Stoic philosopher, has been well received, with 9 total votes. While the number may seem overwhelmingly small (and 1 vote was mine), it's a good start nonetheless, since the entire project is a month old. Here it is, without further ado, for archiving purposes.

Poll: Who is your favourite Stoic philosopher?

  • Zeno - 0 votes (0%)
  • Chrysippus - 0 votes (0%)
  • Seneca - 2 votes (22%)
  • Epictetus - 5 votes (55%)
  • Marcus Aurelius - 2 votes (22%) 
And evidently, the winner is Epictetus! It is also clear, that Roman Stoicism, or The Late Stoa, is way more popular than The Early Stoa. Both periods have their merits, of course. 
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FAQs: a few words on The Stoic Code (project update)


Last month, I started the task of building this project from scratch, with the help of my friend and fellow Indian Stoic, Mr. Hrim Shah. And indeed, it's a pleasure to see that the project has finally achieved a bit of success, no matter how small that may be. Besides, it's no small matter for us, since we both kept our expectations low.

Let's be honest, although Stoicism is among the most elegant philosophical systems in the world (and the best that I know of), it still remains alien to more than 90% of today's population. Most of them remain blissfully ignorant, while others view it in a suspicious way, thanks to the misinterpretation of the word Stoic (someone who represses his/her emotions, as per many modern dictionaries).

We expected other practitioners of Stoicism, in India, to join the cause. Why? Because when Hrim and I framed the project, it was so as members of a WhatsApp group, created by some Indian members of Newstoa. It was as members of the same group, that Hrim and I met, and decided to spearhead the thrust that was previously Newstoa India, and now The Stoic Code.

Why rename the site? 


When we started the project in early March, we initially chose the name Newstoa India, but later it was decided that such a new would lead to confusion among the masses. After all, there's already the Newstoa.com, Erik Wiegardt's fascinating platform that serves as a meeting ground for Stoics from across the globe. That's why, we wanted a name for our project, that would complement our endeavour with its originality.

Besides, we mistakenly confined ourselves, by using 'India' in our name. Stoicism advocates cosmopolitanism, and as citizens of the cosmos built by the Logos, it is our duty to prevent limiting constraints such as political, religious, linguistic, cultural or geographical differences from actually diving the followers of Stoicism. That's why, the blog belongs to the global audience, and not just to the Indians alone.

The name The Stoic Code is unique, to my knowledge, and it also symbolizes what we are trying our best to do here, each in our own way. We are trying to amass the eternally evolving Stoic understanding of the cosmos, and categorize that knowledge properly, to ensure that we all, as practitioners of Stoicism, benefit from the shared, collective knowledge of the community.

Is it a commercial venture? If not, why do this? 


No, The Stoic Code is not a commercial venture. We didn't invest any amount (and this is a free domain, as you can see), and we plan to make no financial gains from the project. There are no hidden ads or commercial agendas anywhere, and we plan to keep it thus. What we're investing here, is our time and effort. In return, the shared repository of knowledge, revelations, thoughts and ideas on Stoicism, remains accessible to us.

Knowledge increases when we spend it.

Our reasons for contributing to The Stoic Code are as follows:

Vasudhaiva Kutumbakam
(the world is my family)

The art of Prosokhe 

By being active in the endeavour, we're active helping each other nourish and sustain the flame of reason, the element of Logos, within each of us.

Getting to know each other


We're geographically scattered. Stoicism is not like Hinduism or Christianity, with millions of followers everywhere. But in this age of digital communication, the blog provides us a shared platform for expressing ourselves. Of course we can use instant messaging or emails, but by sharing our views, opinions and Stoic conclusions, I believe we can get even closer.

Building a knowledgebase 


My friend and fellow Stoic Hrim often tells me, that we should contribute to Stoicism ourselves. Even as students of the philosophy, each of us can contribute something unique to it. The words of Seneca, Epictetus, Zeno, Chrysippus, Aurelius etc continue to guide us, but the true spirit of Stoicism lies in its methodology - we all can generate knowledge, no matter how small or simple that is.

In addition, people new to Stoicism will also be able to find information on Stoicism, Stoic writings and discussions etc to help them get more familiarized with the philosophy.

Writing a shared magazine for the Stoics 


Turning a blog into a magazine is easy, there are RSS feeds for that. Through services such as Feedly, Google Play Newsstand etc, the blog can be read as a continuous, dynamic magazine. Reading Stoic content is an exercise in Stoicism itself, or so I believe. Much like the Newstoa Magazine, but it can be updated more often.

Are more members invited to join? 


Yes, very warmly. If you're interested, please do consider contacting either of us, and we'll be glad to add you to the blog as an author/admin, as per your choice (we both are admins, at present). Regular posting isn't mandatory, there's no compulsion and you can do it at your leisure (and pleasure).

Posts can be anything, as long as it's at least remotely related to Stoicism. You can share stories of your life as a practising Stoic, resources on Stoicism, articles etc.

But I can always create my own blog! 


Yes, of course. But what I've discovered in my years of blogging solo (my main blog is http://techtravelandtalks.blogspot.in), that it gets boring too quickly. Besides, if one user maintains a blog, he/she will have to do everything - write articles, propagate the content, do site maintenance, brainstorm on adding new features and making the site more interesting. But by sharing tasks between us, we can specialize, and accelerate the project.

So, if you feel like it, please consider joining The Stoic Code, as a member. Alternatively, you can also read existing content, share your views by commenting, spread the word, etc.

Also, there's no leader here. I intend to assume no such title, and everything about the project may be freely discussed among the members. Currently we do that by emailing, but at present there's just the two of us. So, we may create a WhatsApp group or mailing list for the task of deciding matter between us, if the number of authors/admins rises further.

But there are other sites/blogs/groups already! 


Yes, but we believe, the purpose of this project is a bit different. Most sites on Stoicism aim to provide an introduction to the philosophy, and are helpful, thus. Groups on Facebook, and Google+ communities on Stoicism, are good for quick discussions between the existing Stoics. Personal blogs tell us about individual realizations of the practising Stoics.

We are the Stoics, Cosmopolitans!
We're citizens of the Cosmos. 
But this project aims to build a shared platform for freestyle discussions on Stoicism. That's more freedom and flexibility, in my opinion. Besides, we don't intend to compete with any other site, blog, group etc. Instead, we wish to complement them. If you maintain your own resource on Stoicism, be it a weblog, journal, Facebook/Google+ group or page, you're more than welcome to share the word here, and it won't be removed. We wish to witness the rise of Stoicism, and intellectually benefit from it.

There's Newstoa, of course, but the Newstoa magazine is released only once a month. That's why we started this project, so that we can post and read whenever we feel like it.

What's there in the project? And why don't you just call it a group blog


This blog is the primary area of interaction for us, but there are a few other front-ends, such as a collectively maintained Facebook page (http://www.facebook.com/thestoiccode), a G+ page (https://plus.google.com/110336620387720828273) and an IRC channel (for live discussions).

The reason I don't call it a group blog alone, is that, I intend to make it bigger than that. How successfully we do that, depends on the Will of the Logos, and we hope to live in according with That.

Final words 


Stoicism has immensely benefited me, and I believe that's just the beginning. It is an immaculate philosophy, an astoundingly simple (yet effective) way of life, and an excellent resource for happier living. I was born a Hindu Brahmin, in a deeply religious family, but like most other analytical folks, I couldn't stay contended with what was on the table. So, I explored more, and finally discovered Stoicism. Now, it's like a religion to me, and I intend to be a witness to its meteoric rise and recognition.

May our endeavour be in accordance with the Logos.


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Sunday, 5 April 2015

Suffer Fools Gladly : On Dealing With Difficult People

As soon as i wake up,I'm like:












Pretext:

Then i gather myself and proceed with my morning rituals ( more on that,in another post).Constant Irritation and low tolerance was an issue that i battled with for years.I could not stand dumb/small/petty/cheap talk,moreover i also stayed away from groups that did that led me to become somewhat of a loner.Slightest of behavior or action or talk would get my goat.Watching everyone from my high horse i despised everyone.I lacked any fulfilling relations in my life and felt a constant spiritual void within me.

Needless to say my social life was in shambles because of this.Unconsciously,I took to sarcasm as a tool for coping with my social handicap,but that turned out to be even worse! People came up to me with their petty troubles,

My reaction would be like:














And End with:















There is a reason why i have quoted 2 Corinthians 11:19,after i became mature and aware of the world and its dynamics around me.I realized how things work in the real world and gradually starting adapting to it.After getting exposed to stoicism,I have:


1) Made Strong Friendships with multiple people
2)Multiple relationships with women
3)Come at peace with myself and the state of humanity around me

Still a long way to, i know...

But here are a 5 Steps how i made radical changes applicable to anyone on a similar path:

1). It starts with YOU! : Self-Love and Introspection:

You're Creeping me out,RDJ!






















It is very hard to accept this fact,but if you're misanthropic or don't generally irritated with people,there's something about you deep down that you dearly resent.This loathing about that part of you is reflected in the hatred for others as well.Hence, what i learnt is how to love myself,i precisely got in touch with my inner-self (not that,ya perv!) through doing the activities i love to do (going old-school on 'em),met old friends from back in the day with whom i had lost contact.Taking out time to pen down my thoughts (in a journal/diary) and also meditated consistently that gave me profound insights into my own being.

After you know about yourself,learn to accept and celebrate your individuality,this will help you do the same in others,as you'll see no two people are the same and everyone has something to offer for you to learn,only if you were receptive enough.This will kick-start the process of socialization

2). Are those black moles?:Acknowledging your Follies & Faults


















Contradictory,i hear you say? Not really,what i highlighted in the previous point was realistic and objective assessment of your personality and coming to grips with it.In this point,what i stress is that you should also be able to find out your shortcomings,weaknesses and cons in order to prevent you from getting all magnanimous about themselves.

This one was very important for me, as it showed that even i was a common mortal with his own flaws and follies.This rocked me off my high horse that i was riding on and brought me back to the ground ...face first! After you make this assessment, DO NOT BE DISCOURAGED!! View them as opportunities for your further growth as a human being and also learn to be humble.

This will annihilate your judgmental attitude towards others,because you know that you aren't sans the flaws you are pointing out in others and start seeing them in a more empathetic light.

3). They ain't mean it,yo!: Realizing the driving intentions behind unconscious behavior











Disclaimer:This is a few concepts that i still practically haven't mastered yet,but i understand it theoretically.

What many spiritual leaders (Sri Goenka,Eckhart tolle) have said that the root of all the violence,harassment and pain caused is due to unconscious behavior.Not clear yet,no probs.Think of a Bully or an overbearing and aggressive boss who is causing pain (through physical or other indirect methods) to other students/employees.This is mostly because the person (bully/boss) hasn't awakened his consciousness and isn't fully aware of his actual reality of being.Meaning if he knew who he actually is and was at peace with the inner and outer universe around him,it would be nearly impossible for him to hurt another being while he's aware of it.

So,most people that hurt,harass or abuse you don't actually mean it,they are just trapped inside the cage of their own contraption of anger/lust/bias,They aren't aware enough to objectively and spiritually gauge their actions,yet.This in no way means, that you put up with their crap,just don't react to it or try anything with the intention of hurting them.Otherwise,you shall fall into the same category.

4). RFLOL...LMFAO: Have a sense of humor 


















I cannot stress enough how important a sense of humor is,to have a content,fulfilling and a joyous life.Understanding,that at the end of the day we are all flawed beings running after the illusory carrot while being stuck in a matrix is invaluable for stoic living.Seneca in his letters stressed that one of the strategies to deal with dicks is self-deprecating humor.Thus,learn to poke fun at yourself,this will not only defuse most hostile/aggressive stand offs but also keep your ego in check.

The stoics not only appreciated any caustic verbal abuse against them,but added to it,  This is a great strategy to catch your enemy off-guard and take advantage of his surprise through humor. So use this often and you won't find any reduction in self-belief/esteem but a drastic spurt in self-acceptance . This Video shows you how to:



5). F#%k it! Can't Change 'em: Coexisting peacefully sans changing one another


 This one is a hard pill to swallow (no homo!), most people who strongly believe in an ideology.world view/philosophy/thingamajig cannot stand seeing any opposition to theirs.Its an ego issue that doesn't allow them to accept people with other/opposing beliefs. Hence,they try to rally and impose their beliefs over others by proving they have a moral high-ground or any other bullshit method.Their ego for that belief is so strong that it doesn't allow them to even fathom for a moment that there can be anything other than that. 

The solution:  

Understand and accept that people are different and even their deepest beliefs are more or less a product of their upbringing and conditioning, hence they have a need to be accepted 'as one of their own' and the even the thought of alienation gives them a cold feet. Rarely are times, when the beliefs that are formed are a product of logical volition and intelligent introspective inquiry, in which case the person will be open to any addendum or opposition to his deepest held beliefs. So, now that you know this, don't try to change people as during the process you will squander your time,energy and morale and end up with an L on the counter.

Final Thoughts:

Do what you believe is right and let others be. Don't hold your breath to wait on them to lock steps with you any time soon. Do not expect anything from them and you'll be content,  and... Oh Yeah ...Be Nice too!

You Said it, RDJ!























Peace Out, Peeps!
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