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NOTE: This is more of a freestyle writing on my personal experience regarding Stoicism. I wrote a somewhat more generalized and formal introduction here: http://goo.gl/2YyFN3
Last year, while I was still trapped in the vortex of narcissism, wanting to get my articles read for the joy of having my words and thoughts being heard and read, I wrote something about building a personal philosophy. And the Internet, being a miniature version of this cosmos, isn't altogether exempt from one fundamental law that determines the fabric of our existence, and pretty much everything else - Information is never lost. Put in simple language, you can just read that article here: http://goo.gl/WLXVyd
Now, before you arrive at the conclusion that I'm just another stark raving idiot out there (which, I guess I am anyway), let me stress that last year, when I wrote that article, I hadn't virtually read anything about philosophy, not even one of those popular philosophy books sold nowadays. As such, everything, that I penned down there, was but Art Brute - my own humble conclusions, put in a very crude, unpolished manner.
Now too, let me stress, things are no better with me. But I have, at least, discovered Stoicism, through the wonderful writings of Irvine, and the Stoic teachings have at least given a shape to how I view the world around me.
What's this blog for, again?
Well, it's just another blog post. You may see that I took a 5-week long break from blogging, since I posted last time. Because I had to organize and declutter my thoughts. Unlike several other professional bloggers out there, who strive hard to grab the attention of as many folks as they can, I have no commercial interest in maintaining this blog. I've written around 300 articles so far, but the only thing that was powering that, was my availability of leisure time, combined with idiotic narcissism. I wanted my blog to be the de facto destination for information-seekers on the Internet. And thus, I wrongly assumed that my (very) limited abilities can stand up to the job, thereby raising my (otherwise crude) blog to the level of sites like Lifehacker, TheNextWeb or even OMGUbuntu! Now, I see how wrong I was!
That's why, I've decided to use this blog for its actual purpose - a tool for:
1. Storing my ideas and notes, so that I may review them later.
2. A tool for communicating my ideas to the wide, green world out there.
3. Just my personal space on the web.
And what's better than Stoicism, the very philosophy that has liberated my enslaved soul, to begin with? That's why, I'm penning down this article.
What's the magic notebook?
Well, it's my 5'' phablet. Let me share a story with you all, Back in August, the whole of India was in a sort of frenzy. It's already the 3rd largest smartphone market in the world, after China and the US, and people always want better, bolder stuff for cheaper price tags. Naturally, being an element of the set called INDIA, I am no exception to this mindset.
So, the Chinese company Xiaomi had announced their 5 incher phablet MI3 would be sold online via Flipkart, the online megastore of India (as they call themselves anyway). But every week since July, only around 20,000 units were available for sale, while demand was high - around 2,00,000 each time. Add to add to the grief, you'd have to register previously, at least a week before the sale actually begins. Then, on the day of the sale, say it starts 14:00 hours, within 3 seconds the whole stock would be shown to be sold! And you'll have to wait for another week.
Now, this phablet is truly marvelous, especially considering the price tag. It has the features of a high-end, premium phone, but fits into the mid-range segment comfortably. So, I had to get it.
I registered on August 6th, and on my first try, on August 12th, I managed to book my phone! And the next day, when it was delivered to me, my joy knew no bounds! I began to feel special and gifted, and even the chosen one.
Notice, how illogical my behaviour was, at that time, to have expressed to much joy at having bought another device, yet another manifestation of consumerism. And naturally, the fire died down within a few days.
Why do I call it the magic notebook?
Well, virtually any Android or iPhone is a sort of magic notebook anyway, if you think about it. You can do a seemingly endless array of stuff with it, right? How about playing some music, or streaming it online from the web? Or, wanna check that latest article on BBC? Nah, let's watch the episode of your favourite show you missed last Saturday, it's on Netflix anyway, if not on YouTube. And add all these to the note-taking, calculating, gaming, communicating and photo-shooting features of this one simple device.
Stephen West, the cheerful host of the show Philosophize This, calls this smartphone thing "something that we knew was coming". You had music players, gaming consoles, phones, cameras, PDAs - so why not combine them all? Chances are, you're reading this article on your smartphone anyway.
Yet, take a moment, fellow child of Mother Earth, have you ever stopped for a while, and considered yourself soooo lucky!!! for being the owner of such a fascinating device? Most probably, if you're like me, you hadn't, previously.
We gain so many things in our lives, and seldom do we take a moment to pause, and be thankful for all, if any, of them. In fact, the very fact that I'm breathing now, alive and awake, and taking in the aroma of the world, while absorbing the beauty of my surroundings, is a simple but profound joy, according to the Stoics. The best part of this wonderful philosophy is that, you can just be happy at any moment, because it's entirely up to you to be happy.
Count Leo Tolstoy was very correct when he remarked "If you want to be happy, be". Yes, it's as simple as that, really, once you begin to grasp the deeper meaning of his words.
Hedonic adaptation
Although a multitude of terms have been used to refer to this feeling, this gradual and inevitable loss of the WOW! feeling after possessing something new, I believe the best one has been mentioned, if not coined, by Professor Irvine. Hedonic Adaptation is this thing, in its true essence. As for me, I got my phone, turned overjoyous and zealous for a few days, and within a week or two, the wonderful, magnificent, brand new, fastest, great value-for-money phone became my phone. And I bet you too have experienced similar things like this.
This, dear reader, is hedonic adaptation. Life has taught us, even programmed us, to adapt to our surroundings. And no matter how gloriously you live, it all loses its charm at some point of time. And then starts the melodrama, that deep sensation of dissatisfaction, unease, lack of tranquility as the Stoics call it. We begin to feel betrayed, ignored and cheated, because there's just nothing left to be cheerful about, apparently.
But this is the greatest mistake, this vortex of dissatisfaction, that results from one simple mistaken assumption - happiness and tranquility are things that can be found externally. This assumption, illogical and counterproductive, although surprisingly intuitive (thanks to consumerism and our society's dysfunctional line of thinking, as a collective being), is the root of much of our suffering.
Happiness isn't external to us, it can be generated internally. In the Indian epic The Mahabharata, there's a beautiful chapter detailing the conversations between the two characters Dharma (personification of justice, order etc) and the then-exiled crown prince and protagonist Yudhistira. There, Dharma asks Yudhistira "Who is genuinely happy and peaceful with himself?", and the latter replies "He, and he alone, who works throughout the day and enjoys the simple elegance of his frugal meal at the day's end".
Thinking about it, Yudhistira could have said "He, who's rich as Bill Gates, the ladies' man as Bradd Pitt, husband to someone resembling Kate Winslet and as powerful as the President of the US, is genuinely happy", or something like that, but he didn't. Because the ancient sages who composed the Mahabharata, were simple forest-dwellers. They had little material possession, virtually no wealth and obviously not palaces and servants. But above all, they were at peace with themselves.
They had, in my opinion, defeated the tentacles of hedonic adaptation.
The joy from within
A painting very familiar to the Indian eyes. Lord Shri Krishna driving the chariot of the warrior Arjuna, which beautifully embodies the elements and essence of Stoicism. |
The Stoics like Seneca, Rufus and Epictetus were very similar to the great Indian sages, some of whom developed the philosophy of Samkhya, which is but the Indian version of Stoicism. In the depths of the Bhagwat Geeta, Lord Shri Krishna, one of the most revered deities of India, speaks to the protagonist Arjuna in a similar tone.
"Act,", he says, "but detach yourself from the fruit of the action". This would be too familiar to the properly trained Stoic ear.
We have so much to be thankful for, and it is wise to realize now, that if we want to be happy, shopping therapy is not the way. That's just the manacle of consumerism, blindly chasing things that we don't have. And yet, as soon as we have them, they seem to lose their charm. This, according to the Stoic logic, justifies that happiness isn't something that can be found through the act of buying or possessing them.
The ultimate Stoic, almost a legendary practitioner of Stoic principles and virtually the embodiment of Stoic Virtue, is the Sage. And the sage, we're told, knows how to derive joy from within - from the very act of being alive. We're like machines, computers if you may, taking in data from all around and processing. And when we reduce incessant thinking and begin to look all around, we see how profoundly joyful every event is!
Simply put, just wake up early one day, if you don't do that daily. And listen, listen to the morning song of the birds! No matter how industrialized your area is, there would obviously be a bird or two in the early hours of the morning. And you'll see, once you start listening intently (without assigning any judgement or interpretation to it, as Eckhart Tolle would say), how miraculous it sounds!
Happiness, in my humble opinion, is a state of the mind. And to truly achieve it, you need a coherent philosophy. And this, in my case, is Stoicism. I'd love to hear from you guys as well, what your respective philosophies are.
Acknowledgement
Google Images & Pixbay for the licence-free images
A Guide to a Good Life (Irvine)
A New Earth (Eckhart Tolle)